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How to Choose the Right Professional for Your Intimate & Romantic Needs

In a world flooded with titles, buzzwords, and shallow “sex-positivity,” finding real, personalized, expert support can feel like looking for a needle in a haystack.

It shouldn’t be this hard. Join this FREE talk away with clarity, confidence, and an action plan to finally get the support you need—for more pleasure, connection, and freedom in your intimate life.

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What Happens When You Trust the Wrong Professional?

You finally take the leap and reach out for support. You’re hopeful—it is time for change. But instead of meaningful breakthroughs, you get stuck in the ''And how did that make you feel?'' cycle with nothing more than vague advice, surface-level tools, or endless talking that never quite resolves what you're actually struggling with. 

Weeks or months pass. You don't feel more connected, more desired, more whole. You’ve invested your time, your money, your hope… and still, nothing changes. You feel stuck—again. And now you're left wondering: If even a professional couldn’t help, maybe the problem is me. It’s a quiet kind of heartbreak—one that builds slowly when the support you need is missing, and you’ve already given it your best shot.

But it’s not you. It’s the system. Most therapists and coaches are trained to speak generally about mental health or personal growth—but very few are truly equipped to handle the complexities of sex, intimacy, non-monogamy, desire, or relational trauma. 

This talk will show you how to avoid those dead ends and find someone with the expertise, alignment, and capacity to truly support your intimate life.


                            What Happens When You Trust the Wrong Professional?

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✔ You will be able to identify three key priorities when selecting a sex and relationship professional: connecting with the professional, assessing their area of expertise, and understanding their methodology.

✔ You will learn to utilize discovery calls to assess compatibility and determine if a professional is the right fit.

✔ You will differentiate between various types of professionals (therapists, coaches, educators) and understand their respective scopes of practice.

✔ You will understand how to navigate specialized areas like kink, ethical non-monogamy, and gender identity when choosing a professional.

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Who is this talk for?

✔ Individuals and couples seeking professional support for their sexuality, relationships, or intimacy.

✔ People exploring kink, ethical non-monogamy, or gender/sexual identity.

✔ Those who feel overwhelmed by the variety of professionals and approaches available.

✔ Those who do not want to waste money, time and energy because of making the wrong choice for professional help.


                            Who is this talk for?

Here’s What You’ll Get Access To

✔ A 40-minute expert-led talk packed with clarity, strategy, and real-world know-how to help you confidently find the right professional for your intimate and relational needs—no more trial and error.

✔ A curated list of bonus resources to dive deeper into key topics, including:

  • Common Questions People Have About Sex Therapy
  • Professional Titles Demystified: A Comprehensive Guide to Sexual & Relational Wellness Experts
  • A Quick Guide to Methods & Approaches: How to Choose What Actually Fits You
  • Choosing the Right Professional for Your Kink and BDSM Needs: A Guide
  • Navigating Therapy as an LGBTQ+ Individual: What Affirmative Therapy Really Looks Like
  • How to Avoid Wasting Time on the Wrong Support

✔ Access to self-discovery quizzes that reveal where you’re at and what kind of support could help you most:

  • Is it Time for Couples Therapy?
  • Is It Time to Spice Things Up?
  • Is Unresolved Trauma Impacting Your Relationships?
  • Are You Attracted to Unhealthy Relationships?
  • What’s the Biggest Barrier Blocking Your Libido?
  • …and more!

✔ A direct path forward—so you can stop spinning your wheels and finally move toward the pleasure, connection, and healing you deserve.


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Here's What Others Are Saying

  • Leah, thank you for lifesexplicit! I've been reading what sexperts have to teach about libido and open relationships and I will be reaching out to some professionals when I get my next pay cheque!

    Maya
    Maya
  • i have spent so much money on the wrong therapists and i was so close to giving up on my sex life. thank you for this talk. now i know what i should be looking for.

    Alex
    Alex
  • WOW! I wish I knew all of this 3 years ago, it would have saved me a lot of trial and error.

    Dex
    Dex
  • Leah, this was so helpful!!! Thank you!

    T
    T
  • 7 years ago my ex husband and I got therapy to open our relationship and lets just say it didn't go well for our relationship because I felt pressured and ended up agreeing to things that ultimately broke our marriage. Now I realise where we went wrong with this therapist.

    Anon
    Anon

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